So I have met someone. I am sure that some of you already have figured it out but in case if you didn't know, i'm gonna tell you anyway. For a little over two months I have been dating somebody that I was good friends with in high school. Hes eleven months older then me so when he graduated high NHS we stopped talking for quite some time. He had gone off to college and at the time he was dating someone. Of course she never liked me and always felt threatened by my presence. to be honest I could understand where she was coming from at that time and I get why some girls get over protective of their boyfriends. You get a good guy and sometimes you do wonder how you got so lucky. You think at any moment they will leave because they are so good. 

Well its been years since they have broken up and I have learned quite a bit about what was going on. Of course I Cant tell you guys the details because 1)that's not ok of me and 2)I don't want our relationship to be completely out for the world to know. 

Really you guys, I am super happy with him. Hes one of those rare men that every girl wants to have. Not only is he understanding but he is also a genuine gentlemen. He gets my struggles and understands what is going on. He listens and really helps me in these hard times. I will admit that our relationship has been very rough. Him and I both have had many people (and animals) pass away and because of that our relationship has been on a tight strand. Anything can set us off and its been a roller coaster of emotions but that's ok. In the end it is making us stronger. 

Its been so nice to have someone but of course we have worked out a few compromises, as any relationship goes. 

So far things are going well and I am happy with him. Our relationship is something I didn't expect and I took my time to give him an honest answer (to if I wanted to date him or not) because I really do like being alone sometimes. I do like the feeling of being independent and free. He knows all these things and so we are taking things slow and building things up as well go. The future holds many possibilities and I cant wait to see where this one goes.